All Up in the Club...

Now here's a good one: Where do you draw the line in relationships about clubs and parties?

What's the use of buying a brand new bra/lingerie for a pajama party that you aren't going to with your man? Who are you trying to impress? Going out to the club with your girls, and have new numbers in your phone from dudes at the club? Who are you trying to fool? Lying to your man when you KNOW he knows the truth? What is the problem? How can a healthy relationship flourish when the girl is all up in the club? It's nearly impossible to take your girl to the club or a party these days. Every dude wants her (not a bad thing), but every dude isn't going to get the point of "this is my girl." As soon as she goes to the bathroom or leaves your side, you might wanna play bodyguard. But no one wants to go through that. So she goes with her girlfriends...her single girlfriends at that. She loves the attention her girls are getting, but in the back of her mind, she misses that "NEW" attention from other men. The club isn't safe for relationships. Trust me, it doesn't fly. If your significant other is ALWAYS in the club, and that's not your style, does this help or hurt your relationship?