Friday, February 29, 2008
Random Thought...
How many black leaders that bashed Obama will jump on the bandwagon now? If I was him...I'd close the wagon gate.
Big Up...
...To all my haters!! I hate this, and all other sayings including the word, meaning, or connotation "hater", "hated on", "haterade" (which is the worst), "fall back hatas"....I'm sure there are more, you've seen them on myspace and facebook.
In reality, everyone does NOT have HATERS!
Also for the most part, the people that say they are being "hated on", don't have haters either. I'm seriously convinced that some folks just don't care what you have, who you are with, or your business. You create haters when you acknowledge the suspicion that you are being "hated on." Stop concerning yourself with what people may think about you. The people who matter don't mind and those who mind..don't matter.
In reality, everyone does NOT have HATERS!
Also for the most part, the people that say they are being "hated on", don't have haters either. I'm seriously convinced that some folks just don't care what you have, who you are with, or your business. You create haters when you acknowledge the suspicion that you are being "hated on." Stop concerning yourself with what people may think about you. The people who matter don't mind and those who mind..don't matter.
Friday, February 8, 2008
All Up in the Club...
Now here's a good one: Where do you draw the line in relationships about clubs and parties?
What's the use of buying a brand new bra/lingerie for a pajama party that you aren't going to with your man? Who are you trying to impress? Going out to the club with your girls, and have new numbers in your phone from dudes at the club? Who are you trying to fool? Lying to your man when you KNOW he knows the truth? What is the problem? How can a healthy relationship flourish when the girl is all up in the club? It's nearly impossible to take your girl to the club or a party these days. Every dude wants her (not a bad thing), but every dude isn't going to get the point of "this is my girl." As soon as she goes to the bathroom or leaves your side, you might wanna play bodyguard. But no one wants to go through that. So she goes with her girlfriends...her single girlfriends at that. She loves the attention her girls are getting, but in the back of her mind, she misses that "NEW" attention from other men. The club isn't safe for relationships. Trust me, it doesn't fly. If your significant other is ALWAYS in the club, and that's not your style, does this help or hurt your relationship?
What's the use of buying a brand new bra/lingerie for a pajama party that you aren't going to with your man? Who are you trying to impress? Going out to the club with your girls, and have new numbers in your phone from dudes at the club? Who are you trying to fool? Lying to your man when you KNOW he knows the truth? What is the problem? How can a healthy relationship flourish when the girl is all up in the club? It's nearly impossible to take your girl to the club or a party these days. Every dude wants her (not a bad thing), but every dude isn't going to get the point of "this is my girl." As soon as she goes to the bathroom or leaves your side, you might wanna play bodyguard. But no one wants to go through that. So she goes with her girlfriends...her single girlfriends at that. She loves the attention her girls are getting, but in the back of her mind, she misses that "NEW" attention from other men. The club isn't safe for relationships. Trust me, it doesn't fly. If your significant other is ALWAYS in the club, and that's not your style, does this help or hurt your relationship?
What do you REALLY want?
I'm gonna be real in what I say. Women are confused just as much as we fellas are. Don't let it get twisted in any way. For example:
Every woman wants a man with a good job, good credit, nice car, halfway attractive, respected, no baby mama drama, etc. So tell me ladies, why does this man often have the Senior Superlative of being "Most Likely to Be Single?" When this man shows interest in a woman, 9 times out of 10 ladies question whether he's gay/on the down low, too good to be true, then ladies tend to settle for men that do not meet their expectations. Do ladies not mind settling for less? It's like women look for an excuse NOT to date the man of their dreams. Just as women say the men are intimitated by successful women, so are women of successful men. Black and white women alike. We all make the mistake of going for what is good TO us, not necessarily what is good FOR us. I'm just observing what I know and see as a male...Get it together ladies. Why I wonder, does this happen?
Every woman wants a man with a good job, good credit, nice car, halfway attractive, respected, no baby mama drama, etc. So tell me ladies, why does this man often have the Senior Superlative of being "Most Likely to Be Single?" When this man shows interest in a woman, 9 times out of 10 ladies question whether he's gay/on the down low, too good to be true, then ladies tend to settle for men that do not meet their expectations. Do ladies not mind settling for less? It's like women look for an excuse NOT to date the man of their dreams. Just as women say the men are intimitated by successful women, so are women of successful men. Black and white women alike. We all make the mistake of going for what is good TO us, not necessarily what is good FOR us. I'm just observing what I know and see as a male...Get it together ladies. Why I wonder, does this happen?
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